Sunday, August 14, 2022

Hospitals in Hanoi, Vietnam

Visiting a foreign hospital is never ideal and you never know what you're going to get or which hospital you should go to. This is my experience taking my two-year-old and my baby who is 5 months old to a Vietnamese Hospital.


With so many people touching the boys it's hard to know where this infection started, however, we are going to be more careful in the future.


 Atticus started running a low fever last week and it only lasted 24 hours. Then he had some drainage which we didn't know about cuz it wasn't coming out of his nose but he started coughing up stuff. His cough progressed so much that he was vomiting up the mucus. I was thinking about taking him to the hospital but then his cough got much better and thought that he was doing okay. At the same time Odin's nose was running and we couldn't keep it clean. He's runny nose was his first symptom and two days later he started running a fever of 101 he ran that temperature for 4 days. The night before we went to the hospital Atticus was screaming on and off for 4 hours straight at bedtime until 2:30 in the morning. That same morning was Odin's fourth day of running a high fever so I finally decided to take them to the hospital. The question was which one. Nick went to work and I prepared a bag. As I was getting ready to go I came down with a lot of anxiety over the whole situation and realize that I couldn't do this by myself, so I asked Nick to come home and come with us.


We decided to visit the Vietnamese international hospital because the cost was significantly lower and a friend had visited there with their son and had a good experience. The moment that we walked through the door we were greeted by an English interpreter. We told her what was wrong and she started the process of getting us checked in. Both boys took a covid test which was negative, and then we headed upstairs to see the doctor. We didn't wait very long to see the doctor. It was very interesting because the doctor and the nurse stayed in the rooms and the patients came in and out of the rooms much different than in America. The doctor examined both boys and told us that Atticus was much worse off than Odin and she wanted him to see an ophthalmologist, dermatologist, x-ray  and both boys had to visit the ENT and get blood drawn and a flu test.





Luckily all those doctors were all on the same floor and right next to each other. There were no lines to wait in and it was pretty easy especially with our amazing interpreter. First up was blood draw and flu test both boys did that. Their flu test came back negative. Then we visited the ophthalmologist and she examined Atticus’ eyes and told us that he had conjunctivitis. She massaged his eyes and taught me how to do it and gave me instructions to do it once every day.


After that, we went to the dermatologist and had a long conversation about Atticus' skin. She believes that he has eczema and gave me all the creams and ointments to treat it and I'm supposed to go back in 2 weeks.


Next up was x-ray and that took 2 seconds. I held Atticus down and they quickly took an X-ray of his chest. And not even 5 minutes later they handed us his X-ray and we went to lunch.







After lunch we went to the ENT and both boys had their ears, nose and throat scoped. Atticus was up first and he had a lot of wax so they had to clean out his ears and then they quickly discovered that he had two severe middle ear infections with pus and they were very worried about it erupting.


Odin was up next and it was a huge struggle to hold him down, it took me and a male nurse to hold him still. He had an ear infection on one side but it was not severe. They prescribed both boys antibiotics.


After the ENT we went back to the doctor who reviewed all of the results with us. The boys had a very high white blood count which meant they had an infection so they both were going to be put on antibiotics. Atticus also has bronchitis and she told me he needed to stay in the hospital for 5 to 7 days because he's so young and he has a lot of things going on right now. However, they didn't have any room to accommodate him there and asked me to go to a different hospital and have him admitted. Our interpreter helped us call three other hospitals and none of them had room. We finally called the French hospital that was recommended to us by another friend and they happen to have room. Nick and I decided to divide and conquer. He would take the scooter home and pack up a bag for Atticus and I and then come to the hospital and grab Odin.


When I got to the emergency room of the French hospital I gave them all my paperwork and they told me that I had to go through and see the doctor again so that she could verify the information and make the decision on if we needed to be admitted or not. They quickly took us back, checked out Atticus and we met with the doctor all within 15 minutes. She examined him and noticed how happy he was and although he had two extreme ear infections, overall he was okay. She asked me if I would prefer the hospital or to be at home. I told her because I had an older son who also needed medicine and attention that it would be better for me to be at home with both of my boys. She agreed and told me she would give me 3 days and if anything happened or changed that I would come back before then. I was so happy by this news because I was having some serious PTSD. I did not want to experience  Hospital time with Atticus in a different country. 


Both boys were champs during this whole crazy and hectic day. Odin was held down several times while they forced things up his nose. in his ears, down his throat, and drew blood from his arm. After the first time he learned very quickly that he did not want to enter any new room and would fight us to go in, luckily most of the appointments were for Atticus. Now one of his new sentences is, “Atticus' turn!”  It's pretty cute.


Giving them medicine before meals after meals in between hours blah blah blah it's so hard and it wears on you. I'm exhausted just from being a mom nurse.


So far meds are not going well. I have to hold Odin down and use a syringe to get the meds in his mouth. Atticus throws up his meds less than a minute after taking them. Overall we have been changing clothes and diapers about 5 times a day due to throw up or diarrhea, so it is just NO FUN!


Monday, August 1, 2022

Tips for Long Plane Trips with 2 littles



July 18th, 2022


Flight to Montreal 2.5 hours

Montreal to Tokyo 13 hours

Tokyo to Hanoi, Vietnam 5 hours

A daunting travel itinerary, even without children. Yet, we were about to do it with two under the age of three.


3 Totes

3 large bags

2 carry on bags (well they were intended to be carry on)

a stroller

car seat

a wagon

3 bookbags

other loose things (blankets, stuffed animals and snacks).


They say you pack way more when you travel with children but we may have gone overboard.


This is what we faced on the last leg of our summer of transitions. One last push to fly to the literal other side of the world and then we would be in our home for the next 2 years.

We were comfortable about the idea; having lived abroad before, the unknown of a new country wasn't that scary, but having two children in tow posed challenges I'm not sure we were entirely prepared for.


With our experiences, I have collected a series of tips I'd like to share with you.


Traveling with kiddos TIP #1
Pack diapers everywhere! You can live without wipes but not diapers.

Pack more diapers EVERYWHERE… I had diapers in the diaper bag and in both carry on bags, but when I was forced to check those bags my brain didn't think "grab diapers" it thought "you a-hole… who are you to make me do this"

During our first flight I realized I only had 1 diaper for each child left and I still had 19 hours of FLYING time left.

I ran through the whole Montreal airport looking and asking for diapers and couldn't find any. Finally on my way to my gate I spotted another mother with an infant and toddler. I approached with tears in my eyes and a sense of urgency (my flight was currently boarding) she was happy to give me some and then another mother chimed in and I thanked them sincerely and ran off. It was a beautiful moment of solidarity in motherhood.


Traveling with kiddos TIP #2
To all the mom's that are breastfeeding and pumping: I thought I was prepared… I thought my 5 month old would breastfeed more and bottle feed less but the opposite happened. He would NOT even consider breastfeeding, therefore, I had to pump around the clock to provide for him. I was prepared for this. I packed a cooler, and a ton of batteries for my Medela pump. When my battery pack started to crap out on me I got worried because guess where was my hand pump? Yup, on my carry-on that got checked.

Here is what I packed

A good pump bag- it flies for free as a medical bag

All my pump parts and only two Medela bottles

Medela wipes to clean those parts

Medela milk bags

Cooler

Ice pack- make sure it is 100% frozen when you go through security

2 battery pack for my pump, they held 8 batteries each

Lanolin

Gallon zip lock to hold clean parts

2 feeding bottles of choice



Traveling with kiddos TIP #3
Get yourself a blow up foot rest. This thing is a game changer especially for long flights or flying during nap time. It was easy to blow up and put at my toddlers feet. He was able to sleep soundly for several hours because we laid down our baby's nest on top of the blow up and seat. We were also able to lay down our 2 year old, buckled him in, and then add his favorite blankie and stuffies so he could sleep comfortably.


Traveling with kiddos TIP #4
When you travel with an infant in arms make sure you request a bassinet seat. I was confused about when and how to request it, so I called the airlines (Air Canada) where I was on hold for 2.5 hours, just to be told they would take care of it at the gate. This information did not sit well with me so I did some reading. I found out that the bassinets only hook up in the bulkhead rows. These seats are highly sought after because you have a lot of leg room. I also found out that they are first come first serve, but I also read that the youngest infant gets one before an older infant. The night before our flight Nick checked us in and made sure we were in the bulkhead for all three flights. For our first flight our plane was too small for one.

Our second flight was more complicated. Nick couldn't book us all together because someone had claimed the middle seat in the row of 3. When we arrived to Montreal Nick went to the desk and asked for us to all sit together and for the bassinet. They happily changed our tickets and we boarded the plane to find another mom in the middle seat requesting a bassinet. Her husband was sitting the other side where Nick and Odin were also supposed to be. I showed her our tickets and how we were all together. She moved over with her husband and the next flight attendant got an ear full. We were super sweet as we explained the situation. He asked about our babies and how old they were. She had a 7 month old and I had a 5 month old. We were told to stay where we are and they were going to move people around so the other couple could have the other bulkhead area. I was happy with Air Canada as they shifted people around to accommodate families with babies.


What we learned about using the bassinet:

-it holds up to 14kilos

-you can only use it when baby is sleeping

-you can't use it during take off and landing

-you can't use it when there is turbulence

-it's a baby jail, once inside you have to Velcro and snap it shut so if there is unexpected turbulence the baby can't fly out.

-even though you are in that seat for the bassinet you have to request that they bring it to you.


Traveling with kiddos TIP #5
Pack some toys and things to keep your kiddos busy. For our toddler we wrapped up different cars and construction vehicles and the plan was to give him one every hour, however, that did not work. He wanted to unwrap all of them one after the other. He threw a huge tantrum and it caused more trouble for us, so we let him unwrap them all and put them in a bag. Then, he was able to select which one he wanted to play with. This kept him busy most of the trip even though I packed books, water painting books, stickers, and his tablet. Which brings us to traveling with kiddos TIP #5a: be flexible with your plans and procedures.

Our infant just chewed on his hands and played with his Eric Carol Lady bug!


Traveling with kiddos TIP #6
This one might seem like a duh-red-truck, but pack a lot of snacks. Our toddler did not like the airplane food and so he ate peanut butter crackers and cheese. I had all of his favorite things in little snack bags and we did not regret it taking up the space. In fact when we arrived to our destination it was the snacks that got us through until we could go grocery shopping. I packed extra in my carry-on bags that got checked.


Traveling with kiddos TIP #7
What to do when you are overwhelmed, kids are crying/ throwing a tantrum.... this happened several times especially around nap time or bed time. Atticus would be asleep and then woken up by Odin screaming or vice versa. These were the hardest times and we learned quickly to pick up the one that was upset and go for a walk. This helped keep the other asleep and give a new view to the screamer. People will stare, people will be upset, but you have to do what's best for your kiddo.


Traveling with kiddos TIP #8
Totes!!! our military friends told us that they use black totes with yellow lids when they move because they are heavy duty and you can zip tie them shut. They worked amazingly well. If you decide to use them to travel abroad make sure you include extra zip ties inside in case security or customs open it.


Traveling with kiddos TIP #9
The WAGON!!! The wagon was a last minute add on to our stash and it made all the difference when traveling to your gate or between flights. We checked our stroller and car seat and just used the wagon. It held our 2 year old and some stuff while my husband held the baby in a carrier. It was AWESOME!

Sunday, August 25, 2019

The cost of a Child

If you are lucky enough to be my Facebook friend it means that once upon a time we had a good relationship and I have no qualms with telling you my personal business. I am about to share something with you, something that is very tender. If you don't want the details to our story don't read it will include female anatomy and bodily functions!

Last year I left Facebook because of everything I was personally going through. I couldn’t physically, emotionally, or mentally keep up with it. Life has hit really hard in many ways, but the most bothersome is what other typical women can do so well, and my body can’t do. This will be the first time that I speak out publicly other than in my unique Facebook support groups. Nick and I are Barren. I will let those words sink in and then I will tell you what that means to us.

Nick and I knew a long time ago that children weren’t going to come natural to us. Whatever gave us that clue.. Maybe the fact that we have been married for 11+ years and we still don’t have a child. When we moved to Boston, in the back of our minds we knew that this would be the place to discover what has been wrong with us all these years. Finally doctors that listened to us. Finally doctors fighting on our side. The horrible awful truth came out and I want to shed some light on things that many people don’t know exist. In fact there are only a few doctors in the world that treat it and I happen to live near one. Coincidence? We don’t think so.

Asherman’s Syndrome: Where the uterus has adhesions (scar tissue) typically due to a D and C but can form in other ways. Some cases are mild, moderate, or severe and the scar tissue can be in the cervix or located in a singular place in the uterus(mild) or everywhere (severe). I was, unfortunately, a severe case although I had never had a D&C or other surgery to cause it. Everything was scarred shut including my cervix.

Right before my surgery to remove my scar tissue I was also told that I had a low ovarian reserve (aka low # and quality of eggs) This was another devastating blow to my womanhood. If you thought that my womb being filled with scar tissue and that my eggs being crap wasn’t bad enough we also found, through a biopsy of my uterus, that I had gone through menopause (it wasn’t active at all). I had no idea that not having a period for over a year qualifies and considered the start of menopause. Looking back I figured out that it had to have happened in my mid to late 20’s.

At this point we had no choice but to have either given up on our dream to become parents and call it a loss or have surgeries and go through hell to figure it out. We chose the latter and surgery after surgery-pill after pill we finally got to the point where my uterus was reactivated and 80% scar free and we were cleared for our first round of IVF (In Vitro Fertilization). We had no other choice because of all the factors, the 20% of scar tissue covered both my tubes, my low egg reserve, and I didn’t ovulate on my own. I was on the highest dose of several meds that I injected into my tummy multiple times everyday. This process was unpleasant but we were hopeful that the results would be worth it.

Finally the time came to see if all of our $$ was wasted, and Happy news came! We were pregnant. We were so happy, but also hesitant to tell people and to really enjoy the news. As we entered our 6th week appointment to hear the heartbeat for the first time we were giddy. The ultrasound tech did her thing in silence and then called the doctor in. They began to whisper, she said we were done and started to clean up, I quickly asked if I could hear the heartbeat. She put her hand on my knee and very gently told me that there wasn’t one. They handed me a box of tissues, apologized, and walked out. I was so shocked that I couldn’t even cry at this moment. We went to see our doctor immediately after and as the receptionist read the letter from the previous test she looked at the tears rolling down our checks and brought us to a room where we could be alone. We were told that the pregnancy was simply not viable but they would double check everything in a week to be sure. It was the hardest week, after reading and hearing a lot of miracle stories I thought I was also going to have one of them, but I didn’t. The pregnancy wasn’t viable, so we schedule a removal for two days later in the OR. The pain-numbness-faith shaking emotions we went through during this time were heart shattering.

The doctor took out the sac and just like that I wasn’t pregnant anymore, or so I thought. A few days later I started experiencing a lot of bleeding and told them what I was feeling and seeing and asked if it was normal because it didn’t feel normal. They reassured me that I was fine and I had a scheduled test the following day and they would see then. Turns out that my HCG levels were still very high and I knew exactly what was wrong. I ignored that doctors office and went back to see my Asherman Syndrome doctor the next morning. I had an ultrasound that showed that a large chunk of baby stuff was stuck in my uterus. She then prepared me for an in office surgery. At this moment I paused and said a prayer asking God to not let it hurt and to take the pain. I have had several of these in-office procedures (Called hysteroscopies) They take scissors and cut things out of your uterus. This time it would be what was left of my baby. The miracle came… I was on the table and realized that I couldn’t feel a thing. Unfortunately, for me, it was really stuck and I was scheduled for surgery in the next few days.

Emotional Pain

Physical Pain

Mental Pain

I was finally in the healing process as they tested my blood once a week to see if my HCG levels were lowering. They were, but slowly. It took over two month to get them to zero and then I was supposed to wait for a period which we both knew wouldn’t come because it’s not something my body does naturally.

Come 2019 I thought I would jump back on board and go straight into my second round of IVF, well that didn’t happen. I forgot that my body doesn’t work. I had to go in and have more scar tissue removed (twice) before I was ready to go. Then finally blood work and waiting for another period (which never came) and we were off on our 2nd round.

I have mentioned that during this time and with all of the hormone therapy I was on, I gained weight. A LOT of weight. This was another big physiological problem that I was going through. I last saw my IVF doctor in October 2018 and then I saw her at the end of January 2019 and her face at how much weight I had gained was indescribable. She asked what happened and I blamed it on the meds she gave me. She bluntly told me that her “meds” didn’t make me put cookies in my mouth and gain 30+ lbs. I was so angry! However, she sent me to someone who would help and I was put into a program and lost 25 lbs before I got pregnant at the end of April! Hate her, but grateful for her :)

They changed my IVF protocol and told me that it was experimental, so it may or may not work. All I needed was 1 healthy embryo from all this and we would be good to go. Lucky God was on our side and all we had was 1 decent embryo from the round and that little baby decided to grow. Against all odds and our hesitation… this pregnancy has progressed and we couldn’t be happier.



Our one and only!

I am considered a high risk pregnancy because of the complications with Asherman’s Syndrome, so we have gotten a lot of attention and still need a lot of prayers. 

We have had a few scares, but we have also had a lot of laughs.

Going through all of this has made us realize so many things the first and foremost being that God loves us and wants us to be happy. He will heal and give miracles in his timing and not our own. People kept telling me for years to have faith and patience and I started to question my faith because I thought I had enough… turns out that so many people don’t talk about the other part that is not in our control, timing.

So grateful for everyone's support and love, especially from my little family!


Sunday, November 11, 2018

Summer is over

We can't believe summer has come and gone so quickly. We definitely had some amazing highlights.

1. We graduated with our Masters in Teaching English as a Second Language.




2. We traveled Europe with Lon and Jennifer.






3. We lived with my brother, his wife and family for a few weeks with Nick's brother and family. Duncan and Devan were looking for a place to live because Duncan got into med school!



4. We went to Maine and did a lot of swimming and relaxing. Sorry no pictures taken.

5. I ran away for a weekend in Nashville to see Shania Twain live with my sister.

6. Brought Joe to Boston for a week and change.



7. We bought a car and we moved to a bigger apartment... With a ton of windows.

We had a fun and crazy summer!

Saturday, May 12, 2018

Salamanca, Spain I miss you

Right now it's a cold and rainy spring morning in Boston and as I was sipping on some tea I started thinking about the warmth that Salamaca, Spain brought into my life. I had a lot of intention to finish this blog a long time ago but I lost track of myself. 

The Madrid airport is the hardest airport to navigate! We were in and out of it several times and each time we saw multiple foreigners lost and confused.  When we arrived to Madrid for the first time it was late and of course we had to call our hotel shuttle to pick us up, but how could we call without a phone? We learned very quickly that people do not speak English there and our Spanish was very limited but that didn't stop me. I went up to the information desk and asked a man if I could use a phone to call our hotel and he agreed. We got to our hotel and passed out in enough time to miss breakfast and head back to the airport to catch our bus to Salamanca. In all the drama, I realized that my brand new laptop was not with me. The hotel called the airport and everything was just a huge mess. We retraced our steps and finally at the info counter I had been at the previous night, I located my laptop. Now, it was time to find the buses and purchase a ticket. After walking for a long time we figured out that tickets could only be purchased online. AGAIN, we did not have a phone with data and the airport wi-fi would not allow us to use it on our phones.  I took out my laptop and said a prayer and poof the wi-fi allowed me to access it. I was able to purchase the tickets but now the problem was, WHERE DO WE CATCH THE BUS??? There was not 1 sign NOT 1!!! We asked and people would say go to terminal 4 or 1. We went to both of the terminals and saw nothing. Finally we found someone to tell us that at terminal 4 you have to leave the airport and go towards the rental area and the buses are there. We found our way to a line of foreigners and asked if they were waiting for the bus. Finally we were on our way to Salamanca. When we arrived to our beautiful city we decided to walked from the bus station to our apartment to meet our new landlord. We were shown our room and around the house; met our roommates, saw the mound of dirty dishes, the disgusting bathroom, and kitchen. IS IT to late to change our minds? Our fourth roommate we met at 1 am (AM stands for MORNING!) because he thought it was fun to watch movies and have a party when our rooms are half joined together. He didn't speak ANY English and so our conversation went like this:

Lauren: "Hola"
Not amigo: " Hola"
Lauren: We are trying to sleep!
Not amigo: no intendes
Lauren: *Puts hands together and under head and makes snore noises..... then looks at him and covers her ears and starts screaming! YOU ARE TOO LOUD!!!!
Not amigo: lo siento

He closed his door and turned down the music and then everyone started whispering! We could still hear every word but at least we could sleep through it. We found out the next morning that another roommate was moving at the end of the week and we asked to have his room. They agreed and we had three weeks of peace and quiet.

Although our living situation was less than ideal we picked an amazing University and town to take classes. We fell in love with everything immediately.




We did a lot of exploring and leaving our comfort zones, and once we figured out the town it was time to leave. Still, we tried to enjoy it to the fullest while we were there. We ate out a lot once we figured out how to get cheap tapas and the best breakfast pastries in the world. Who wouldn't want churros dipped in a thick chocolate sauce for breakfast?

A popular shop was the tobacco shop, so we decided to see what all the jazz was about... just kidding! Remember that I hurt myself really bad before we left? Well I bought some tobacco and put it on my skin to help the bruising and pain. It worked and it also stained my skin... haha
One day we decided to take a walk because Nick really wanted to take a midday siesta in his hammock. We walked a mile or more before we found the perfect spot. This beautiful area was on the other side of the city. Once we crossed over an old Roman bridge we walked down a path and played in the water. Nick found the perfect spot and took a nap while I studied and then went exploring.
The bridge! and you can see the city behind Nick.


Did I mention that we ate a lot of food? One thing I would say to any traveler is don't don't go in somewhere just because you are nervous. Suck it up and just do it. Yes we ate some really bad food because the menu was not translated into English, but you live and you learn(speaking from experience. I ordered a meal on our second day and got food poisoning!! Picture of that food is on the far right) This pizza was at a beautiful restaurant. We ate outside and did a lot of people watching. The water was expensive and so was the pizza, but it was worth it. OH AND THE OLIVES!!! SO DELICIOUS!

If you know Nick  then you must also know his love for Pizza. All the foreigners had their favorite pizza place that they would recommend, but Nick wanted to know which one had the best pizza, so we did an experiment. We went to EVERY pizza place within a few blocks of our place and ordered the same pizza (Nick's favorite is pepperoni and mushroom). I can't remember the names of the places but I do remember that all of the pizzas tasted different. They all had distinct different crust, sauce, cheese, and pepperoni.

A fun tradition that we have when we are visiting a place for the first time is going to the grocery store and buying a lot of different snacks that we have never seen before. Then we eat them!! Here you can see store bought flan and some kind of mint cookie. SUPER GOOD!

Seriously this trip feels like a lifetime ago. I truly miss it and all the fun times we had. I miss all of the olives, tapas, soda, pastries, smothering hot nights, freezing mornings, and most of all I miss all of the friends we made and our Spanish classes!

Our favorite Spanish teacher! So great!
Our last few days... we finally figured out a great cheap place for Tapas and finally hanging out with friends. Overall, if you want to live abroad I have learned that 1 month is not long enough. It took us 1 month to figure things out and to start feeling comfortable, so I would definitely recommend 6-8 weeks to get the place figured out and enjoy it!

I hope you enjoyed our memories just as much as we do!!


Monday, July 31, 2017

The Rock of Gibraltar

We left Seville in the afternoon and drove a couple of hours to see this huge rock.  It's one of Pillars of the old world. From our parking spot the rock looks amazing. As you can see it was a beautiful clear day and that made me happy because it turned out to be the LONGEST day. I'm so happy that we kept things happy and positive because all of us almost lost it today. We parked the car in Spain and walked into Britain. As went through customs the first time and got to the bus area and realized that we already had tickets but we had to talk to our travel agency and guess what.... they were in Spain, so we walked our cute butts back over there. We found the booth fairly quickly and it was closed... So we walked through customs a second time. We spoke with nice people along the way and they were very helpful with directions.

We took a one-way ride up to the top because we planned on walking down (you will learn later that this was a bad idea) As we exited our gondola there were signs everywhere warning about monkeys. These monkeys did not care how close you got to them, but you didn't want to be close... I promise. We watched as baby strollers were attacked, back packs were attacked, people who were holding things in their hands.... you guessed it... were attacked. These monkeys were crazy.



well except for this tiny baby, he was cute.

We stayed at the top for a long time because as we stood there we watched clouds form around us. For me this was the highlight of the whole day, and we saw Africa! Below you can see Africa in the distance. SOOOO cool!!

I was hoping that the monkey would fall off but he didn't :/


Here are two great pictures where you can see a cloud forming. We took a lot of videos because it was really neat. 
Because we had been eating and driving a lot we decided that we needed to walk down the rock. We met some kind people halfway down who told us about this picturesque suspension bridge but they didn't know how to get there. Well, we found it and had some fun breaking the rules. Rule #1 don't rock the bride... oops We made it out alive!

As we neared halfway we had a decision to make... left or right. We chose to go right which led us to this. 

and then to a beautiful, tall, gate with a sign that said DO NOT ENTER FALLING ROCKS.
We all started thinking, "How are we going to jump this fence!" We started talking strategies on what we were going to do and as we got closer to get a good look, Nick found a narrow path down the steep rock. We didn't hesitate and we were down and back to the streets of the little town in no time.  Well, really, the whole walk took us like 2 hours.  A lot longer than we had originally anticipated. Now the questions were, where can we find a bus, and where is food? Food was the higher priority so that happened first. We shared a $20 pizza at a restaurant with the worst service we have ever had. The bus wasn't so easy we had to walk a mile or so to find it and then when we got on we only rode it for about 5 minutes before our stop :/ We crossed back over to Spain and headed to our car and, finally, we were Granada bound.

Sunday, July 9, 2017

Seville, Spain

Two Americans and an Australian went on a road trip........ sounds like great beginning to a hilarious joke. Well it was, as all three of us and our luggage had to fit into this tiny car, at least it was a convertible.

I skipped our last class on Friday to run and grab the car because the rental car shop closes for 3 hours so they can take a siesta (gotta love Spain). I was running late so I literally ran there because it was 30 minutes away on foot. I made it just in time to see a beautiful sign "be back in 5" I was not the only person waiting for their return. Finally they came back and it was my turn to speak the best Spanish I had because I had been practicing what I was going to say in my head all day so I wouldn't sound stupid. I approached the counter and the jolly man said, clear as day, "Hello, How are you doing today? What's the name on your reservation?" I was shocked but determined to practice my Spanish so I answered in Spanish, " Me llama Lauren Stevens" He responded, "Oh you prefer Spanish, Okay" Then he proceeds to speak very fast and I gave him the deer in the headlights look and he said, "That's what I thought!" I made the transaction in English :(

I took my time checking over the car and figuring out where the buttons were for everything then I took off to find a parking spot near our apartment. I was shocked how easy it was to jump back in to driving a 5 speed because I hadn't driven one in 8 years. As I was concentrating on both finding a parking spot and not killing the car I had to drive around the block twice before I found a parking spot. On my second time around someone yelled at me. I quickly recognized the man from church. We had been over to his house a few times and he doesn't speak any English. I pulled over and he yells, "Esposo correr" I thought my husband is running.... NEVER.. and Yelled back, " Ropas en Melletas, Adios" and I drove away slowly as I was so confused. Next thing I see is Nick in front of me huffing and puffing and it hits me like a ton of bricks, OH NICK WAS RUNNING AFTER ME!! JAJAJAJAJA! Turns out that I passed him in front of our apartment but didn't see him. He decided to run after me yelling and screaming in the street like an idiot. I never heard him.


We packed up our stuff and went to pick up Kylie, we were running late and had no way to tell her so when we got there she was nowhere to be found, so we waited. She arrived and told us that she second guessed herself and walked across the street to make sure she was in the right spot. She added her bags, jumped in and we took off for Seville!

Our ride was wonderful here are some of the views.




The bull billboards are everywhere and they were fun to look at. We wondered why they are there and if there is a certain purpose to them. Turns out there is a really cool reason read about it here.

We arrived in Seville with plenty of time to explore but we had to find our AirBNB first. We got lucky and found a great parking spot so we jumped out and went searching on foot. Nick was told through text we would have a parking spot available to us and all we needed to do was talk to the "gordo, gordo hombre" (she wrote those words in the text) As we were searching we knew we had the right building when we saw the fat man guarding the door. We said hello and walked upstairs to our apartment. When we exited we didn't see him so we decided to search for the parking garage on foot first before we got the car. We found the garage quickly and went to grab the car. When we arrived back to the garage it was open so we went in and parked. As we opened our car doors we heard the gate closing. We all got a little worried at this point because we didn't know how to make it open. Nick ran to see if the metal door was really closed and if he could open it. It was shut and there wasn't a button to let us out. We had an "oh shiz" moment then we knew we had to act if we wanted out!

Nick and Kylie picked me up so that I could see out of the top and then I proceeded to yell at people walking by. Finally a lady stopped and in my panicked Spanish I told her our situation and to please to get the "Gordo, Gordo Hombre" she left and a few minutes later returned with the fat man. He let us out but he would not open the garage so we could get the car out. The conversation turned a little heated so Nick, trying to think quickly on his feet, showed him the messages from owner of the apartment. The man became enraged and started yelling at us and then he just walked away. As he walked away Nick looked at his phone and realized that the man had read and realized that he was the "Gordo Gordo Hombre" Whoops!

A minute later a woman pulled up and opened the garage with a clicker. She laughed at our story and helped up get the car out.

 Us inside the garage.
Us outside the garage.

Once we parked the car in a free area we ate and walked into the main part of the city. The views on the way were beautiful. If the sun was going down then it's around 9 or 9:30 PM.

Right when we entered the city we were attacked by a man who wanted us to purchase a fan. Kylie and I walked away..... we thought Nick was right behind us but when we turned around the man had Nick and wouldn't let him leave. We walked over and snapped a picture. The man displayed his fans for Nick and then realized we took a picture so he posed for the second one. Nick bought a fan.

We decided since we only had so much time to spend on Saturday that we would go see one of the places now. Our 25 minute walk turned out to be a 1 hour walk but the sight was worth it. The
Basílica de la Macarena was beautiful!


We walked back to our apartment and we took pictures a long the way.
The next morning we got up and walked into town again to visit the Plaza de Espana. Guess who passed us on a bicycle? Yup, the gordo, gordo hombre. Then, we passed him as he took a smoke break. We couldn't help but laugh.


Next on the list was the Real Alcázar de Sevilla. It was a beautiful palace with amazing gardens and tile work. It was one of my favorite places out of our whole trip!



After we finished our visit we jumped in the car and drove to our next destination.